From Publishers Weekly
Bly redefines masculinity in a groundbreaking book that went toCopyright 1992 Reed Business Information, Inc.
From Library Journal
Bly, a major American poet who won a National Book Award in 1968, appears regularly at workshops for men. The book's title refers to a mentor-like figure in a Grimms fairy tale who serves as Wild Man, initiator, and source of divine energy for a young man. This marvelous folktale of resonant, many-layered meanings is an apt choice for demonstrating the need for men to learn from other men how to honor and reimagine the positive image of their masculinity. Bly has always responded to Blakean and Yeatsian intensities, preferring to travel the path lit by mythic road signs. His intent here is to restore a lost heritage of emotional connection and expose the paltriness of a provisional life. For many men capable of responding imaginatively to allegory and myth this will be an instructive and ultimately exculpating book. Others may regard it as an inscrutable attempt, intuitive at best, to find merit in male developmental anxieties. For all collections emphasizing family or gender studies.- William Abrams, Portland State Univ. Lib., Ore.Copyright 1990 Reed Business Information, Inc.
New York Times
"Important and timely"
Deborah Tannen, Washington Post
"A brilliantly eclectic written meditation...an invisible contribution to the gathering public conversation about what it means to be male-or female."
Book Description
In this deeply learned book, poet and translator Robert Bly offers nothing less than a new vision of what it is to be a man. Bly's vision is based on his ongoing work with men and reflections on his own life. He addresses the devastating effects of remote fathers and mourns the disappearance of male initiation rites in our culture. Finding rich meaning in ancient stories and legends, Bly uses the Grimm fairy tale "Iron John," in which the narrator, or "Wild Man," guides a young man through eight stages of male growth, to remind us of archetypes long forgotten-images of vigorous masculinity, both protective and emotionally centered. Simultaneously poetic and down-to-earth, combining the grandeur of myth with the practical and often painful lessons of our own histories, Iron John is a rare work that will continue to guide and inspire men-and women-for years to come.
Iron John: A Book about Men FROM THE PUBLISHER
"In this timeless and deeply learned classic, poet and translator Robert Bly offers nothing less than a new vision of what it is to be a man." "Bly's vision is based on his ongoing work with men, as well as on reflections on his own life. He addresses the devastating effects of remote fathers and mourns the disappearance of male initiation rites in our culture. Finding rich meaning in ancient stories and legends, Bly uses the Grimm fairy tale "Iron John" - in which a mentor or "Wild Man" guides a young man through eight stages of male growth - to remind us of ways of knowing long forgotten, images of deep and vigorous masculinity centered in feeling and protective of the young." At once down-to-earth and elevated, combining the grandeur of myth with the practical and often painful lessons of our own histories, Iron John is an astonishing work, translated into a dozen languages, that will continue to guide and inspire men - and women - for years to come.
FROM THE CRITICS
AudioFile - Robert Berlinger
Poet/storyteller Robert Blyᄑs Iron John is a complex, yet highly personal exploration of issues and images of masculinity. While it is structures around the examination of a particular myth, Blyᄑs vast range of references and witty anecdotal style weave a complex exploration of the masculine spirit. Richard Ferroneᄑs flat, unmodulated reading of Blyᄑs work captures none of his wry humor or ironic tone. The readerᄑs lack of empathy with the authorᄑs spirit is most apparent in the bookᄑs anecdotal passages in which Blyᄑs own humor shines. While Ferroneᄑs delivery is dull and enervating, the richness of Blyᄑs observations and the beauty of his metaphors offer considerable consolation. R.W.B. ᄑAudioFile, Portland, Maine
Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
It is refreshing these days to read a book that does not lay the blame for America's collective ills on social injustice....Mr. Bly's book is important and timely....It suggests that a young man better forget about growing up unless he has the sensitivity of a Jung, the brains of an Einstein and the determination of a General Patton, plus a good dose of luck. -- The New York Times Books of the Century, Dec. 9, 1990