Book Description
This powerful book invites men to take a probing look at their identities, relationships, finances, time, temperament, and integrity, and then directs them to take the first time step toward lasting change.


From the Publisher
Do you know anyone who has ever won the rat race? Probably not. And yet, everywhere you go you see men who are tired--worn out from trying to win this race that nobody wins. Is there hope? According to this book, yes . . . absolutely. The Man in the Mirror reveals twenty-four secrets of how to live successfully with the man in your mirror. This book is written for you, the man grappling with the pressure and stress of everyday life. Here are some of the questions this book explores: - I want my life to count, to make a difference. How can I satisfy my need to be significant? - I'm more financially successful than my parents, but I suspect I many not be better off. Am I missing something? - In the wake of my ambition I have left a trail of broken relationships. Can I have another chance? - Does God want Christians to have money? How much money is enough? - I have made some terrible decisions which have resulted in a lot of suffering. How can I do a better job making life's big decisions? - Sometimes I get so angry I think I'm going to explode! Sometimes I'm paralyzed with fear. How can I conquer these emotions? - If my wife knew my secret thoughts, she would divorce me. I would give anything to master my thoughts. Do other men struggle with a secret thought life? With solid answers to these and many other questions just like them, this just could be the most important book you ever read.


From the Author
Business leader, author, and speaker Patrick M. Morley has been used throughout the world to help men and leaders think more deeply about their lives and to equip them to have a larger impact on the world. He is the bestselling author of several books, including the award-winning Man in the Mirror, Walking with Christ in the Details of Life, The Rest of Your Life, The Seven Seasons of a Man’s Life, Getting to Know the Man in the Mirror, and Devotions for Couples (formerly Two-Part Harmony). Morley has a ministry focused on the needs of men and leaders, and teaches a weekly Bible study to men in Orlando, Florida, where he resides with his famil


From the Back Cover
The Man in the Mirror has helped hundred of thousands of men understand the person who stares back at them in the mirror each morning. This powerful book invites men to take a probing look at their identities, relationships, finances, time, temperament, and integrity, and then directs them to take the first step toward lasting change. Featuring focus questions in each chapter The Man in the Mirror is perfect for personal and small group use.


About the Author
He lives with his wife in Orlando, Florida.


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Foreword
Mirror, Mirror on the Wall; Whos the fairest of them all?
What greater vanity can be expressed than that of the wicked witch in Snow White? The witch was obsessed with the desire to be the most beautiful woman in the land. She loved her mirror. She spoke to it with terms of endearment . . . until one day the mirror gave her an answer, and she didnt know which she hated more, Snow White or the mirror that refused to lie.
If a dog is a mans best friend, perhaps his worst enemy is his mirror. Well, maybe his mirror isnt really his worst enemy; it merely reflects the image of his most formidable opponent. What opponent is more dangerous than the one who knows our deepest, darkest secrets? What opponent is more lethal than the one who can probe our most vulnerable points?
The man in the mirror is me. Ouch! I suppose I should have said, The man in the mirror is I. But I or me, the message is the same. What I see in the mirror is what I get, like it or not. My mirror wont lie to me either.
Mirrors are marvelous contraptions. Since Narcissus fell in love with his own image while gazing at his reflection in a pond, the human race has been fascinated by mirrors. Mirrors are the friends of magicians, the enemies of aging movie stars. We have round mirrors and square mirrors; big mirrors and compact mirrors; bathroom mirrors and rearview mirrors.
The mirror was tiny Alices magical vehicle through which she could pass into a land of enchantment. The mirror was the symbol for the Apostle Paul of our dim understanding of the mysterious things of God:
We see through a glass darkly; but then face-to-face. Now I know in part; then shall I know fully, even as I am fully known (1 Corinthians 13:12).
I am a Weight-Watcher, a Lifetime Member. At a recent meeting, a fellow member finally arrived at his goal-weight after shedding sixty pounds of fat. The group leader asked him to relate how he felt after his accomplishment. He replied:
Now, I am no longer embarrassed to look in store windows. I used to avoid glancing at the store windows as I walked down the street. Every time I looked in a window, instead of seeing the merchandise displayed inside, all I could see was the reflection of my obese body. I stopped looking. Now, after reaching my goal-weight I enjoy looking in store windows again.
What do you see when you look in the mirror? I have a large stand-up mirror in my bedroom. I cant imagine why I ever parted with my hard-earned money to purchase such a loathsome thing. I use it for golf. Thats right. In the privacy of my bedchamber I swing a golf club and check my positions in the mirror. One thing is certain: It doesnt look like Jack Nicklaus in there.
The doggone mirror is insensitive. In fact, its downright brutal. It shows me every wart, every bump in my shirt (bottom-first), and every blemish.
Now Pat Morley comes along and wants a mirror that can reflect the soul. Fortunately for me and for those who read this book, Morleys mirror is gentle and kind. It tells the truth, which is scary enough, but it does it with encouragement and wisdom.
Several years ago I wrote a biography of a mans life. Two things stick in my mind from the experience of writing that book. The first is that I discovered from probing the details of another mans life that any human life is a profound study in fascination. The unique experiences of any individuals life are genuine fodder for a gripping novel.
The second thing I discovered was this: I found myself wondering in a fit of egomania if anyone would ever be inclined to write a biography of my life. I decided that such an idea was sheer fantasy. I was convinced it would never happen.
I was astonished to discover that someone actually did undertake to write my biography. It was Pat Morley. The title of my biography is The Man in the Mirror. The irony is that Morley didnt even know he was writing my life story. You may be equally astonished to discover that it is your biography as well. It amazes me that Morley can write so many biographies all in one book.
I am a teacher. I am in the knowledge business. The Bible warns us that knowledge can puff up, whereas love builds up. Yet, at the same time, the Bible exhorts us to seek knowledge. Such knowledge, however, is not to be sought as an end in itself. My Bible says:
Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom. And in all your getting get understanding (Proverbs 4:7).
The goal of knowledge is wisdom. The goal of wisdom is to lead a life that is pleasing to God. This book is a book that contains uncommon wisdom. It is stirring, disturbing, and abundantly encouraging all at the same time.
The Man in the Mirror is a book written by a mans man. It is a book written by a man, for men. While I was reading this book, the thought kept occurring to me, I cant wait for my wife, Vesta, to read this book. Vesta is a voracious reader. She reads more than I do. I get my best tips on what to read next from her (even with books of theology).
I want my wife to read this book, not because I think she needs to read this book. Im the one who needed to read it. I want my wife to read this book because I know my wife will be thrilled to read it.
One last tip for you. If someone gives you this book or if you buy it yourself, be sure to read it. If you dont read it, by all means destroy it before your wife gets hold of it. If the unthinkable happens, if you dont read it, and your wife does, then my dear brother, you are in deep weeds.
R. C. Sproul
Orlando, Florida

FROM THE PUBLISHER

This Gold Medallion Award-winning book--with over one million copies in print--is now available in audio form

When it was released more than 10 years ago, The Man in the Mirror became an instant classic, a book that dug deeply into the hidden problems faced by most men. Now men whose schedules are already crowded with the urgent can listen to honest and biblically sound insight on 24 common issues such as: the search for authentic faith and meaning in life, how to avoid regrets with your children, how to be happily married, solving time management problems, dealing effectively with pride, fear, and anger, and doing away with a secret thought life.

Author Biography: Patrick Morley is a business leader, speaker, and the best-selling author of twelve books, including The Man in the Mirror, Ten Secrets for the Man in the Mirror, The Seven Seasons of the Man in the Mirror, and Devotions for the Man in the Mirror. He lives with his wife in Orlando, Florida.

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