From Publishers Weekly
This could have been titled "The Dysfunctional Male," since the entire work is devoted to helping men and their partners (of either sex) overcome and prevent impotence. Authors Milsten, a urologist and director of the New Jersey-based Center for Sexual Health, and Slowinksi, a psychologist and sex therapist, offer a comprehensive look at male impotenceAits causes, effects and treatments. Helpful chapters, such as "What is Impotence" or "Myths and Fallacies that Promote Impotence," begin with a box of commonsense, albeit obvious, points ("The average time to ejaculation is simply not known"). A section, "Topics of Special Interest," effectively examines a range of interesting issues such as "Is There a Male Menopause" or "Is It Safe to Resume Sex After a Heart Attack." And a self-evaluation section offers more than 20 questions that can help a man start the process of dealing with actual or potential impotence. Unfortunately, the book is marred by somewhat stiff and stilted medical-textbook language ("Any of these situations just mentioned can underlie both primary and secondary erectile difficulties and will require therapeutic attention"). But overall this is a practical health book that takes men's sexuality seriously. (Aug.) Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.


From Library Journal
In the men's health arena, no subjects receive more attention than sexual dysfunction and impotence. In this comprehensive male sex manual for the lay reader, Milsten, a urologist and the medical director of the Center for Sexual Health in Woodbury, NJ, and Slowinski, a clinical psychologist and professor of psychiatry at the University of Pennsylvania, present state-of-the-art knowledge about the sexual anxiety-provoking subjects that all males may experience at some time in their lives. The material represents the combined advice of both a urologist and a psychologist because problems of impotence may involve both specialties. Intended for the general publicAall ages and both sexesAthis book covers the spectrum of male sexuality from anatomy to Viagra in clear, straightforward, easy-to-understand prose. Recommended.AJames Swanton, Harlem Hosp. Lib., New York Copyright 1999 Reed Business Information, Inc.


From Booklist
Urologist Milsten and clinical psychologist Slowinski emphasize prevention rather than treatment in their discussion of male sexuality and its problems, about both of which much has been learned during the past few decades. One new discovery, Viagra, though helpful in some circumstances, deals with symptoms rather than causes and can mask conditions that need treatment. Milsten and Slowinski deal clearly with the physical and psychological causes of impotence, a term being superseded, for some, by erectile dysfunction. One of their best chapters takes up some of the myths and fallacies associated with male sexual problems and neatly disposes of each. They also relay some piquant trivia; for instance, pointing out, in a discussion of sexual mechanics, that mosquitoes average 20 seconds for intercourse. As part of their straightforward, helpful effort, they describe what a prospective patient should expect during evaluation of his problems, and they cover both physical and psychological treatments and briefly discuss many related questions, such as whether it is wise to ride a bicycle. William Beatty

ANNOTATION

"...offers answers to questions commonly asked from those who live with erectile dysfunction...offers questions men should ask their doctors and explains how women can help their partners to cope with ED."

FROM THE PUBLISHER

Most men will at some time experience sexual problems, and if they lack the knowledge to address the problem they may fall victim to myths about performance. Their partners may become confused and frustrated, placing stress on the relationship.

This accessible new book brings together the expertise of a leading urologist and a prominent psychologist and sex therapist to answer the questions that men -- and women -- ask most about male sexual function.

SYNOPSIS

A medical doctor and a clinic psychologist team up to explain healthy male sexual function and the problems that lead to impotence.

FROM THE CRITICS

Publishers Weekly

This could have been titled "The Dysfunctional Male," since the entire work is devoted to helping men and their partners (of either sex) overcome and prevent impotence. Authors Milsten, a urologist and director of the New Jersey-based Center for Sexual Health, and Slowinksi, a psychologist and sex therapist, offer a comprehensive look at male impotence--its causes, effects and treatments. Helpful chapters, such as "What is Impotence" or "Myths and Fallacies that Promote Impotence," begin with a box of commonsense, albeit obvious, points ("The average time to ejaculation is simply not known"). A section, "Topics of Special Interest," effectively examines a range of interesting issues such as "Is There a Male Menopause" or "Is It Safe to Resume Sex After a Heart Attack." And a self-evaluation section offers more than 20 questions that can help a man start the process of dealing with actual or potential impotence. Unfortunately, the book is marred by somewhat stiff and stilted medical-textbook language ("Any of these situations just mentioned can underlie both primary and secondary erectile difficulties and will require therapeutic attention"). But overall this is a practical health book that takes men's sexuality seriously. (Aug.) Copyright 1999 Cahners Business Information.

Library Journal

In the men's health arena, no subjects receive more attention than sexual dysfunction and impotence. In this comprehensive male sex manual for the lay reader, Milsten, a urologist and the medical director of the Center for Sexual Health in Woodbury, NJ, and Slowinski, a clinical psychologist and professor of psychiatry at the University of Pennsylvania, present state-of-the-art knowledge about the sexual anxiety-provoking subjects that all males may experience at some time in their lives. The material represents the combined advice of both a urologist and a psychologist because problems of impotence may involve both specialties. Intended for the general public--all ages and both sexes--this book covers the spectrum of male sexuality from anatomy to Viagra in clear, straightforward, easy-to-understand prose. Recommended.--James Swanton, Harlem Hosp. Lib., New York Copyright 1999 Cahners Business Information.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

John Money, Ph.D., Professor Emeritus of Medical Psychology, Johns Hopkins University Medical School

Milsten and Slowinski are on the cutting edge—as much at home in the organics as the psychogenics of erectile disability. — John Money

Pepper Schwartz, Ph.D. co-author of What I've Learned About Sex

There is no book quite like this in the marketplace. The Sexual Male balances psychological and medical information that men, and their partners, will want to know so that they can be intelligent advocates in their own behalf. I can't think of a man who wouldn't benefit from reading this book. — Pepper Schwartz

Arnold A. Lazarus, Ph.D. Distinguished Professor of Psychology Emeritus, Rutgers University

What a splendid idea for a prominent urologist to team up with a knowledgeable psychologist and write a state-of-the-art account of sexual dysfunction and its remedies. This user-friendly book is a delight to read, and its messages are very clear, easily found, and readily understood. — Arnold A. Lazarus

Sandra R. Leiblum, Ph.D., Professor of Psychiatry and Co-Director of the Center for Sexual and Marital Health, UMDNJ

The Sexual Male is a wonderful synthesis of sound, sane and sensible advice for dealing with male sexual problems. The writing is exquisitely clear and precise and each chapter provides useful suggestions for not only dealing with existing problems but preventing new ones. — Sandra R. Leiblum

Raymond C. Rosen, Ph.D., Co-Director, Center for Sexual and Marital Health, Robert Wood Johnson Medical School

Milsten and Slowinski have broken new ground in their approach to the subject of male sexual dysfunction. This is one of the most thoughtful and intelligent books on the topic, and it will be an invaluable resource to the many men and women who are coping with sexual dysfunction and its consequences. I recommend it highly. — Raymond C. Rosen

Beverly Whipple, Ph.D., R.N., F.A.A.N., President, American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors and Therapists

This easy-to-read book provides male and female readers with the latest information about male sexual function and dysfunction. It is extremely 'user friendly' and provides practical approaches to many of the concerns faced by couples today. I highly recommend it to people who want to lean more about themselves and their relationships and to those who want to improve their sexual lives. — Beverly Whipple

June Machover Reinisch, Ph.D. Director Emerita, The Kinsey Institute

Whether young or old, currently experiencing erection problems or still believing, "it could never happen to me (or him)," this book speaks clearly and effectively to all who seek and expect a full and enjoyable sex life. — June Machover Reinisch

Alan J. Wein, M.D., Professor and Chair, Division of Urology, University of Pennsylvania

The Sexual Male addresses many aspects of male sexual dysfunction in a scientific fashion, and manages to do so with a logical and practical viewpoint, interspersed with humor and personal philosophy. — Alan J. Wein

Harold I. Lief, M.D., Emeritus Professor of Psychiatry, University of Pennsylvania

This is a book for every guy and gal in the country. At some time in his life every man will experience erectile dysfunction. The quip about the difference between anxiety and panic tells it all: Anxiety is the first time a guy can't get an erection twice; panic is the second time he can't attain an erection once. Why not prevent panic? This book will definitely help. — Harold I. Lief

David Schnarch, author of Passionate Marriage

Men (and women) trying to understand the causes and treatments of erection difficulties will welcome The Sexual Male. Broad coverage and clear presentation of important facts make this a useful resource. — David Schnarch

Richard Sadovsky, M.D., M.S., State University of NY Health Science Center

The Sexual Male is a uniquely thorough review of sexual problems and solutions that will undoubtedly clarify how sexual health contributes to better relationships and personal well-being_. A useful tool to educate both the patient and the caring clinician. — Richard Sadovsky

Derek C. Polonsky, M.D., author of Talking About Sex

Drs. Milsten and Slowinski have produced an engaging, comprehensive way the body works to the impact of the many psychological subtleties that influence how we behave and function sexually. — Derek C. Polonsky

Tom E. Nesbitt, Sr., M.D., past president, American Medical Association

This book may well be the best source of analysis as to the physiology, pathology and management of erectile function that I have yet to find. — Tom Nesbitt

Ridwan Shabsigh, M.D., Director, New York Center for Human Sexuality

This book fills an urgent need to inform and educate patients with impotence or erectile dysfunction. The authors are two highly knowledgeable senior professionals in the field of sexual medicine who bring balance and sensitivity to the subject. — Ridwan Shabsigh