Review
"This book is useful for all parents who want their children to grow up with healthy attitudes in a world that uses race to separate human beings. . . . A worthwhile read."

"This superb, rational, and highly readable volume answers a deeply felt need. Parents and educators alike have long struggled to understand what meanings race might have for the very young, and for ways to ensure that every child grows up with a healthy sense of self. Marguerite Wright handles sensitive issues with consummate clarity, practicality, and hope. Here we have an indispensable guide that will doubtless prove a classic." (Edward Zigler, Ph.D., sterling professor of psychology and director, Yale Bush Center in Child Development and Social Policy)

"Here, at last, is an intelligent, well-researched and provocative, yet also comforting and reassuring book of advice. For parents who are trying to raise emotionally healthy children in a racially polarized world, Marguerite Wright has performed a timely and tremAndous public service." (Clarence E. Page, syndicated columnist, The Chicago Tribune)

"As I read Dr. Wright's book, I was reminded of what it's like to peel an onion. Layer after layer, the book uncovers the complex issues surrounding race and children. With wisdom and compassion, she explains how black and biracial children perceive color and race. But, most importantly, she gives us guidelines we need to raise healthy and happy children in our race conscious world. An excellent primer for parents, teachers, counselors, and anyone who is concerned with the future of our children." (Belva Davis, reporter, KRON-TV, San Francisco)

"In her book, Marguarite Wright uses a wealth of examples from her work with children and families and offers a creative array of suggestions and strategies for raising health black and biracial children. This book is a much-needed guide for rearing children in a society that is all too conscious about race." (Tony Paap, president and CEO, Children's Hospital Oakland)

"Finally, a practical and intelligent discussion of a complex issue that is so frequently misunderstood. All those who want to raise healthy children who have a positive sense of themselves can gain valuable lessons from this book." (Pedro Noguera, professor of education, University of California, Berkeley)

"This is simply the best book I've ever read on raising or teaching minority children. It's short . . . filled with memorable observations and useful advice." (Joe Morris, professor and director, School of Psychology, California State University, Northridge)


Book Description
This superb, rational, and highly readable volume answers a deeply felt need. Parents and educators alike have long struggled to understand what meanings race might have for the very young, and for ways to insure that every child grows up with a healthy sense of self. Marguerite Wright handles sensitive issues with consummate clarity, practicality, and hope. Here we have an indispensable guide that will doubtless prove a classic.--Edward Zigler, sterling professor of psychology and director, Yale Bush Center in Child Development and Social Policy A child's concept of race is quite different from that of an adult. Young children perceive skin color as magical--even changeable--and unlike adults, are incapable of understanding adult predjudices surrounding race and racism. Just as children learn to walk and talk, they likewise come to understand race in a series of predictable stages. Based on Marguerite A. Wright's research and clinical experience, I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla teaches us that the color-blindness of early childhood can, and must, be taken advantage of in order to guide the positive development of a child's self-esteem. Wright answers some fundamental questions about children and race including:What do children know and understand about the color of their skin? When do children understand the concept of race? Are there warning signs that a child is being adversely affected by racial prejudice? How can adults avoid instilling in children their own negative perceptions and prejudices? What can parents do to prepare their children to overcome the racism they are likely to encounter?How can schools lessen the impact of racism?With wisdom and compassion, I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla spells out how to educate black and biracial children about race, while preserving their innate resilience and optimism--the birthright of all children.


From the Inside Flap
Myth: Black and biracial children dislike their race from the time they are preschoolers.Reality: Young black and biracial children are unable to understand racial prejudice. In fact, developmentally they are incapable of understanding the concept of race. A child's concept of race is quite different from that of an adult. Young children perceive skin color as magical?even changeable?and unlike adults, are incapable of understanding the mature concepts surrounding race and racism. Just as children learn to walk and talk, they likewise come to understand race in a series of predictable stages. Based on Dr. Marguerite A. Wright's research and clinical experience working as a child psychologist, I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla teaches us that the color-blindness of early childhood can, and must, be taken advantage of in order to guide the positive development of a child's self-esteem.I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla is filled with practical, positive, and creative ideas for handling common situations such as what to do when your child says she wants a white doll; how to deal with relatives and friAnds who compare your children's skin colors and hair textures; and how to discipline your children so that they can grow up with self respect. Teachers will gain valuable insights about how preconceptions can contribute to a child's success or failure and how to handle discipline problems in the classroom. Wright answers some fundamental questions about children and race including What do children know and understand about the color of their skin? When do children understand the concept of race? Are there warning signs that a child is being adversely affected by racial prejudice? How can adults avoid instilling in children their own negative perceptions and prejudices? What can parents do to prepare their children to overcome the racism they are likely to encounter? How can schools lessen the impact of racism?With wisdom an


From the Back Cover
Myth: Black and biracial children dislike their race from the time they are preschoolers.

Reality: Young black and biracial children are unable to understand racial prejudice. In fact, developmentally they are incapable of understanding the concept of race.

A childs concept of race is quite different from that of an adult. Young children perceive skin color as magical—even changeable—and unlike adults, are incapable of understanding the mature concepts surrounding race and racism. Just as children learn to walk and talk, they likewise come to understand race in a series of predictable stages.

Based on Dr. Marguerite A. Wrights research and clinical experience working as a child psychologist, Im Chocolate, Youre Vanilla teaches us that the color-blindness of early childhood can, and must, be taken advantage of in order to guide the positive development of a childs self-esteem.

Im Chocolate, Youre Vanilla is filled with practical, positive, and creative ideas for handling common situations such as what to do when your child says she wants a white doll; how to deal with relatives and friends who compare your childrens skin colors and hair textures; and how to discipline your children so that they can grow up with self respect. Teachers will gain valuable insights about how preconceptions can contribute to a childs success or failure and how to handle discipline problems in the classroom.

Wright answers some fundamental questions about children and race including

What do children know and understand about the color of their skin?
When do children understand the concept of race?
Are there warning signs that a child is being adversely affected by racial prejudice?
How can adults avoid instilling in children their own negative perceptions and prejudices?
What can parents do to prepare their children to overcome the racism they are likely to encounter?
How can schools lessen the impact of racism?

With wisdom and compassion, Im Chocolate, Youre Vanilla spells out how to educate black and biracial children about race, while preserving their innate resilience and optimism—the birthright of all children.

The Definitive Guide to Teaching Black and Biracial Children About Race

Im Chocolate, Youre Vanilla teaches parents and educators of black and biracial children how to reduce racisms impact on a childs development— from preschool through adolescence— and in doing so raise emotionally healthy children.

Paperback copy

[Back cover head] The Definitive Guide to Teaching Black and Biracial Children About Race

I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla teaches parents and educators of black and biracial children how to reduce racism's impact on a child's development-from preschool through adolescence-and in doing so to raise emotionally healthy children.

"This superb, rational, and highly readable volume answers a deeply felt need. Marguerite Wright handles sensitive issues with consummate clarity, practicality, and hope. Here we have an indispensable guide that will doubtless prove a classic."
—Edward Zigler, Sterling Professor of Psychology and director, Yale University Bush Center in Child Development and Social Policy

"Here at last is an intelligent, well-researched, and provocative, yet also comforting and reassuring book of advice. For parents who are trying to raise emotionally healthy children in a radically polarized world, Marguerite Wright has performed a timely and tremendous public service."
—Clarence E. Page, syndicated columnist, The Chicago Tribune

"This is simply the best book I've ever read on raising or teaching minority children. It's short . . . filled with memorable observations and useful advice."
—Joe Morris, professor and director, School of Psychology, California State University, Northridge

"Finally, a practical and intelligent discussion of a complex issue that is so frequently misunderstood. All those who want to raise healthy children who have a positive sense of themselves can gain valuable lessons from this book."
—Pedro Noguera, professor of education, University of California, Berkeley

"I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla should be required reading for teachers who want to foster a positive atmosphere of racial relations for their students, teachers, and administrators."—Valerie Rivers, mentor and kindergarten teacher, Palmetto Elementary School, Fontana, CA

Marguerite A. Wright, Ed.D., is the senior clinical and research psychologist for the Center for the Vulnerable Child at Children's Hospital in Oakland, California. Wright lives with her husband and four children in Berkeley, California.

"Just as Jean Piaget's work is a good window into the stages of cognitive development, what Dr. Wright has to say in I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla is an equally important tool for understanding how the stages of race awareness develop in children."
—Bob Whitlow, principal, Aurora School, Oakland, CA

About the Author
MARGUERITE WRIGHT is the senior clinical and research psychologist for the Center for the Vulnerable Child at Children's Hospital in Oakland, California. Wright lives with her husband and four children in Berkeley, California.

ANNOTATION

"...based on the author's research and clinical experience, answering such fundamental questions about children and race ...explains how to educate black and biracial children about race, while preserving their innate resilience & optimism."

FROM THE PUBLISHER

I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla teaches parents and educators of black and biracial children how to reduce racism's impact on a child's development - from preschool through adolescence - and in doing so to raise emotionally healthy children.

FROM THE CRITICS

Educational Leadership

This book is useful for all parents who want their children to grow up with healthy attitudes in a world that uses race to separate human beings. . . . A worthwhile read.

Booknews

Shows parents, teachers, and others who work with children how to take advantage of children's concepts of race and skin color at various developmental stages to promote positive development of children's self-esteem. Deals with family situations and classroom discipline problems, and gives practical suggestions for helping children overcome racism and creating a healthy school experience from preschool through high school. Annotation c. by Book News, Inc., Portland, Or.

WHAT PEOPLE ARE SAYING

This superb, rational, and highly readable volume answers a deeply felt need. Parents and educators alike have long struggled to understand what meanings race might have for the very young, and for ways to insure that every child grows up with a healthy sense of self. Marguerite Wright handles sensitive issues with consummate clarity, practicality, and hope. Here we have an indispensable guide that will doubtless prove a classic. — (Edward Zigler, sterling professor of psychology and director, Yale Bush Center in Child Development and Social Policy)

This is simply the best book I've ever read on raising or teaching minority children. It's short . . . filled with memorable observations and useful advice. —(Joe Morris, professor and director, School of Psychology, California State University, Northridge) — Joe Morris

Finally, a practical and intelligent discussion of a complex issue that is so frequently misunderstood. All those who want to raise healthy children who have a positive sense of themselves can gain valuable lessons from this book. —(Pedro Noguera, professor of education, University of California, Berkeley) — Pedro Noguera

Here, at last, is an intelligent, well-researched and provocative, yet also comforting and reassuring book of advice. For parents who are trying to raise emotionally healthy children in a racially polarized world, Marguerite Wright has performed a timely and tremendous public service. —(Clarence E. Page, syndicated columnist, The Chicago Tribune) — Clarence E. Page

As I read Dr. Wright's book, I was reminded of what it's like to peel an onion. Layer after layer, the book uncovers the complex issues surrounding race and children. With wisdom and compassion, she explains how black and biracial children perceive color and race. But, most importantly, she gives us guidelines we need to raise healthy and happy children in our race conscious world. An excellent primer for parents, teachers, counselors, and anyone who is concerned with the future of our children. —(Belva Davis, reporter, KRON-TV, San Francisco) — Belva Davis

In her book, Marguarite Wright uses a wealth of examples from her work with children and families and offers a creative array of suggestions and strategies for raising health black and biracial children. This book is a much-needed guide for rearing children in a society that is all too conscious about race. —(Tony Paap, president and CEO, Children's Hospital Oakland) — Tony Paap

I'm Chocolate, You're Vanilla should be required reading for teachers who want to foster a positive atmosphere of racial relations for their students, teachers, and administrators. —(Valerie Rivers, mentor and kindergarten teacher, Palmetto Elementary School, Fontana, CA) — Valerie Rivers